Why I Broke Up With This Copywriter
There are two types of people in the world:
First up are the people who are totally comfortable having those little red indicator numbers all over their phone.
Me? I’m the second one – a person who dreams of inbox ZERO.
Nothing unread. Everything responded to – or filed.
What about you? Actually, never mind! It totally doesn’t matter! This blog is NOT ABOUT INBOX ZERO!
It’s about how ruthless I am about who I allow into my email -
I whittled myself down to subscribing to only 2 copywriter/email marketing experts who brought the most value...
Each has a quirky personality. Both are exceptionally successful, openly sharing how they moved into 7 figures.
👏🏼 I’m all for this transparency! Yay!!
Both know their shit – and one of them OFTEN offers free trainings & great resources – NOT FLUFFY, either! Walk-away-&-implement stuff!
She sells plenty to her list – and I’ve bought plenty from her.
The other sells something in every single email but rarely gives to her audience. I’ve bought from her, too.
There’s always an ask (again – I love a good Call to Action), but it doesn’t feel like a relationship.
It feels transactional.
Her emails had slowly started to irritate me to the point where I asked some industry-insider friends who know her whether she’s as snarky & rude & entitled in real life as she seems in her emails –
And every one of them said, No! She’s lovely & funny & generous, actually.
Hmph!!
So why was I making what I was saying as so irritating?
The fact that she makes millions?
That she’s a big deal name?
That she’s always asking and rarely giving?
All of it??
Maybe it didn’t matter WHY I was so irritated…but what was important was I wasn’t learning from her content anymore…
Perhaps because I was so distracted by my thoughts about her –
Or maybe I’d simply learned everything I could from her!
Has happened for you, too?
A podcaster you used to love whose message has shifted & doesn’t resonate anymore?
An author whose books you gobbled up, but her latest one just didn’t do it for you?
It’s OK to outgrow someone – or something!
It’s actually normal –you don’t need to wonder if there’s something wrong with them OR YOU!
Holding onto something that’s not creating value for you anymore is a waste of your time!
WHO NEEDS THAT IN THEIR LIFE? Not me – and definitely not you!
So, I UNSUBSCRIBED.
Is someone or something stealing your energy?
Listen – right now, we don’t have extra time or energy to waste on things that don’t serve us!
Who do you need to get out of your social feed, podcast list, or inbox?
⛔️ Unsubscribe.
🚫 Unfollow.
👎🏼 Block.
Make these changes in small shifts – and I promise, they WILL make a big difference!
Xo, Jen
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